Weekends are highly regarded in Americorps NCCC, as they represent a chance to travel, move autonomously, or sleep. Quick tangent: So roughly 5 of my 8 teammates religiously take naps. We get an hour for lunch during weekdays, and they return to our Science Lab / Kitchen, scarf down some food, then sleep for 30 minutes before returning to work. I've never been a napper (unless I'm on a long car ride), so I have trouble understanding their motives. They always wake up groggy and stupid, so why do they do it? I have no idea. The most annoying part about it is that only Team Leader sets an alarm, so I have to go wake up everybody else 5 minutes before we leave, resulting in that just-woke-up wide eyed stare/glare that says, "why did you wake me up you bastard?" So this is what elder sibling's responsibility feels like. My sympathies to all you older brothers and sisters out there.
Back on track: Weekends. Throughout the week there is talk of how the upcoming weekend will be spent. There are 3 possible responses to ideas brought up:
1. Serious Interest - The group latches on to the idea like ticks in an animal shelter. Enthusiasm abundant. Other teammates push the idea, even help to organize it. Although 1 or 2 naturally oppose the decision, it gets passed through congress and the house, and the president signs it into law. We go out and do it that weekend.
2. Shoot Down - The idea gets shot down. The idea's architect is resentful and less prone to support other ideas. Everyone quickly moves on with their lives.
3. Mild Interest - This is where things get interesting. The proposed idea gets mild interest, generating responses like "that's a good idea, I'd like to do that." Notice the lack of commitment in that reply. Mild interest ideas receive a modest following, but it's generally spurious interest. The time to potentially do the activity comes around, and still nobody is sure if it will happen. We all wait around for somebody to initiate it. Finally, the idea gets brought up again, and the same uncommittal answer is received. Ultimately, we don't do it. Mild interest ideas generally don't get done.
Quick example: It's a Saturday afternoon, the whole team is back at the school, talking on the phone, making lunch, or sitting down staring at a wall. Team Leader has taken the van to go to the gym (our school gym doesn't have enough weights or machines for his liking.) He'll be back in an hour. We've heard of this giant sporting goods store called Scheels that is located in an outdoor mall complex about 10 minutes away, so one girl proposes we go there. There's also other shopping options, some outlets, etc. The idea generates mild interest. We wait around until Team Leader returns, than a majority commits to going, but in an hour or so. As the hour passes, people get involved in streamed reality shows or phone conversations or continue to stare at the fascinating wall. Another hour passes. The idea gets brought up again, and we all say "Yea, let's do it, just give me a couple minutes." 30 minutes passes. Eventually, some girls realize that they could do laundry and go to Borders to use free wireless internet (which we don't have), and that idea is met with serious interest by 1 other person, the minimum number of proponents requisite for attainment. The idea of going to Scheels came up first, but because it produced mild interst, it never happened. Mild interest is idealism; Ideally we would like to go to Scheels and the mall complex, but in actuality staying home offers just enough to deem it not worthwhile.
I've learned to avoid these curious and sometimes obnoxious group equivocations by taking the van by myself at odd hours. Lately I've been watching World Cup games at 7 AM, way before anyone else has awoken. In fact, I usually get back before anyone has eaten breakfast. Mornings are the best bet. I have until about 11 AM to get the van back. I suppose I shouldn'thave been so apologetic towards older siblings earlier in this post. I never knew they had such good morning hours to avoid brats like me.
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